Wednesday, March 7, 2012
A Call to Loving Arms
I don't want this to sound like a battlecry, however as I want to make a call to arms - loving arms.
Research has shown that supporting and strengthening women is the most effective path to creating lasting change and stability within society.
As human beings we are wired for connection and as women we are built for relationship: we're equipped physically, hormonally, neurologically to nurture, to empathise and to build community.
The majority of my clients are women - they are the ones who feel something is wrong and want to do something about it. Some have talked to their partners and persuaded them to come along and work on their relationship together, but often the men think its the women who have a problem and everything would be okay if they 'sorted themselves out'. The women then lose heart and either give up on themselves or on the relationship.
My research, training and the inspirational clients I work with help me see over and over how much true intelligence and wisdom there is in a woman's ability to feel. In a world that has lost heart, this is a powerful - and life saving - resource.
Calling all women: you have what it takes to lead your loved ones, your family, colleagues and friends to a new level of relationship. Your heart will tell you what is working and what is not - don't ask the men to fix the relationship, it's not their job and never was. Trust your intuition, listen to your heart, reclaim the feminine gifts that you have in abundance and together we really can make the world a better place. Don't give your man the keys to your heart and put him in the driving seat, he won't to know where he's going, he wont admit when he's lost and certainly won't ask for directions!
Courage - from the French word for Heart - is what it takes, so let's take courage and make a small step in emotional evolution - and a giant leap for all mankind.
Here come the girls!
If you'd like to be part of the evolution contact me at Relationship Training. I'm running courses for courageous men and women who want to live wholeheartedly.